How to Be Appreciated by Your Co-workers - The Muse

How to Be Appreciated by Your Co-workers - The MuseHow to Be Appreciated by Your Co-workersHow many times have you thought how great it would be if your co-worker congratulated you on your latest project, or said Happy Birthday, or asked how you were feeling when you were having a terrible day? And how often has that thought actually turned into an action?Its nice to be appreciated and connect with the people you work with. The thing is, no ones a mind reader. However, Im sure we can all agree youd love to hear these lines more often.1. Great JobYouve just submitted a proposal that took 10 long days (and nights) to complete, and youre silently fist-pumping, yet no one seems to notice your excitement. Or, the only congratulations you get on that new initiative is a formal schmelzglas from your boss that merely says Good work.Sure, its nice to get a shout-out from the person above you, but nothing makes you feel truly accomplished than the recognition of your colleagues. Even if they w erent a part of it and have zero idea what any of it means, just a small part of you wishes they would at least lend you a high five- or, even better, ask you more about it.2. How Can I Help?Youre practically sweating through your shirt and your desk is a mess. Doesnt anyone see your struggling to get through the day? Doesnt Turner from accounting have anything better to do than shoot paper balls into the nearest trash can?Youre not incompetent (and you certainly dont want anyone to think you are), but an offer of a helping hand would make your day a whole lot better- even if you ultimately turn it down.3. Thanks for the HelpNot only did you do all your work, but you managed to assist Tracy in tackling that big client report. You didnt mind, because you like Tracy and knew how important it was to her. But, a simple thank you wouldnt hurt, especially because no one else stepped up to the plate when she was in need (and that report did mean you had to stay past 7 PM).4. Are You OK?You re sleep-deprived, youre going through a personal issue, your boss just gave you a negative review on the last project you completed. You may not want to talk about it- or, on the contrary, you really, really need to vent- but regardless, youd be so grateful if someone beat you to the punch and asked how you were. 5. Do You Want to Grab Coffee/Drinks/Lunch?Even though youre an introvert, or tend to leave the office early to be with your family, youd actually really love to get to know the people you see from 9 AM to 6 PM every day (beyond what they eat at their desk for lunch every day). You may not have all night, but youd be thrilled to throw a time on your calendar for a quick coffee or post-work cocktail. Honestly, you could use the break.Did I strike a notenzeichen on any of these? If so, the best advice I have for you is to lead by example. Want to get help? Give it. Want your peers to appreciate you more? Notice when others are doing awesome things and shout them out. Its tha t simple- and it makes all the difference in creating a work environment thats supportive for all, including you.